A reminder to myself - Let Go

Let go of the pain.
Let go of the burden.
Let go of the disappointing words and actions that were thrown at you.

You’ve carried them long enough, and they have weighed on your sense of self-worth. But here’s the truth: that negativity was never born from you. It was created by others, and they tried to plant it in your life.

It’s time to release it.
It’s time to reshape your life.

Reshape the way you see yourself.
Reshape the way you even see those hurtful experiences.
And come back to the present moment.

Life is better now.
Life is better simply because you are here.

So enjoy it. Enjoy this life while you have it. Don’t wait for some future moment to allow yourself happiness. Heal the wound. Be grateful for what is already yours.

Remember—only you can rewrite this story. Only you can bring justice to what happened, by releasing what others tried to embed in your spirit. That is their burden, their karma. And in time, life will hold them accountable, whether you see it or not.

But the pain? The burden? The cutting words and actions? They are not yours to carry anymore.

So live again.
Balance yourself again.
Step into a new beginning, with opened heart. 

Because you deserve it.

— The Creator of Life



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